Update On my Grandmother

apbpetey

New member
Well it's a very sad night here. After making it through surgery to repair her wrist and hip, my grandmother had a blood clot. They gave her blood thinners, but she started bleeding. So they stopped and had to give a blod transfussion. Then they put in something I forget the name of it, to help protect against anymore clots that may form.

So they were talking about her starting rehab for her hip again starting tomorrow. In fact last night she was able to sit up and move around some. Then it wet bad. She started having real trouble breathing early this moring. They moved her ICU and had her on a vent. It seems that the clot she had in her lung had gotten bigger because they had to stop the thinners. They said the vent was being used to help relax her while they started thinners again. They had to check her blood every few hours seeing how she started to bleed from them the last time.

She looked like she was doing great. I left er at 4pm this afternoon and her heart levels were great as they have been. Then out of no where she had major drops in her heart levels and at one point they had revived her, but she died in a matter of mins.

So just before 6pm tonight we lost one of the greatest people you could ever know. I miss her so much right now, it is very hard to type this.

She was born on 6/29/1916 she was 89 when she past away tonight. She was married to my grandfather who served in WWII. He pasted away before I was born due to problems an injury from the war. My mother is their only child and she was born in 1957. My grandmother work at various factories including one during WWII that produced supplies for the soldiers. My grandfather was never the same after the war and took up drinking shortly after he came home. When my mother was growing up she remembers having to sit and hide with my grandmother becuase they couldnt pay the bill collectors that would come to the house. She went from living like that to living on top of the world with my parents after my mom got married to my step-dad. Even though she ended up not having to worry about money she still lived a very simple life and didnt spend much, but she would always offer to give you the shirt of her back if it would help you (was like that even when she was dirt poor). In fact she was the type of person that never had a single bad thing to say about anybody.

Well it felt a little better writin this, but I caannot sit and write anymore. I know she is in a much better place. They say she didnt suffer and it was quick. I am not the type of person to cry, but I have cried more tonight than I ever have before. I truly miss her so much right now.
 

Trixie

Moderator
Oh John, my deepest condolences. I do understand what you are going through. There must be something about women from that generation that made them so strong and caring and kind. I'm glad she didn't have to suffer long, and I hope your pain eases.
 

steve

With "LOD" Since 1997
John, my sincere condolences to you and your family on the passing of your Grandmother.
 

Last Mrk

Charter Member
Please accept my condolences on the loss of your Grandmother.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
 

Alexander

LOD Board of Directors
John,

I wish to send you and your family my sincere condolences on the passing of your grandmother.

Alexander
Board of Directors
Lincolns of Distinction
 

apbpetey

New member
Thank You All for your kind words. We are going to hold services on Thursday night and the burial will be on Friday morning. We are taking her to CT. which is were she lived most of her life and where her family is buried. I am going there Wednesday Night and will be back sometime late Saturday. Until then I will be helping to go through her things. Again thank you all.
 

Pablo

New member
So sad to hear what happened. From what you wrote, I feel like I would have liked to know her. My prayers are with you and your family. If it's any consolation, I would like to remind you that she lives on in your heart, and in the hearts of those she touched...
 

PalmettoMarkVIII

New member
I, too, extend my condolences to you, and your family. Your recount of her life is a wonderful memorial to her. (I wonder if LOD could create a memorial page for it's LOD family and extended family?)

Jeff
 
N

Neilster

Guest
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of saddness. We all hope that somehow you can find joy in remembering the better times with your loved one.

Sincerely,
 

Rene

New member
Yes, remember the good times. The lives we touch are all that really matters in this world. ;(

Travel safely.
 
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