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Our beloved pet of 12 years passed away this past Thursday. We are all heartbroken over the sudden loss of our dog Coco. She was such a hugh part of our daily life and it's hard not having her by my side as I type this.
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I'm sorry for your loss Frank. We lost our cat of 10 years. Missing for 4 weeks in the bitter Wisconsin cold and snow. Got a beautiful cat from the humane society and then 3 days later, our cat shows up. Half the size he was before, wet, muddied but welcomed. That was a rollercoaster of emotion.
I don't want to offend anyone with this passage, but here goes. One of my best friends had a dog that he loved like you couldn't believe. The dog always sat on the bow of the boat, even at 50 mph. It was pretty funny. We convinced him to have his pet stuffed and then put on the bow. He actually sent it to the taxidermy but then woke up and reconsidered. I still think it would have been a fitting tribute but probably would only have served to keep the emotional scar open.
Frank, I understand your emotions. I hope someday you can get another dog that you can share the same experiences with.
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I'm sorry for your loss Frank. We lost our cat of 10 years. Missing for 4 weeks in the bitter Wisconsin cold and snow. Got a beautiful cat from the humane society and then 3 days later, our cat shows up. Half the size he was before, wet, muddied but welcomed. That was a rollercoaster of emotion.
I don't want to offend anyone with this passage, but here goes. One of my best friends had a dog that he loved like you couldn't believe. The dog always sat on the bow of the boat, even at 50 mph. It was pretty funny. We convinced him to have his pet stuffed and then put on the bow. He actually sent it to the taxidermy but then woke up and reconsidered. I still think it would have been a fitting tribute but probably would only have served to keep the emotional scar open.
Frank, I understand your emotions. I hope someday you can get another dog that you can share the same experiences with.
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Frank,
I am a shallow person, and not many things bother me, and I don't take many things to heart. However, whenever I read a note from someone whose close pet has died brings tears to my eyes, literally. I can relate...very much so. Our dog is the most important thing in our lives. I dread the day when it's his time. I feel you sadness and pain. I'm very sorry. I cannot say when it will get better, or you'll feel better. I've always believed that to honour a pet, he should be replaced by another. Afterall, they always want you to be happy, and another pet will bring you happiness, but more, it will not allow you to forget. The new pet will always remind you and bring fond memories and smiles of the things Coco used to do. Give it time....
I am not religious, but perhaps this poem will bring you some solace.
THE RAINBOW BRIDGE
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge . When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge . There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals that had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together...
Frank,
I am a shallow person, and not many things bother me, and I don't take many things to heart. However, whenever I read a note from someone whose close pet has died brings tears to my eyes, literally. I can relate...very much so. Our dog is the most important thing in our lives. I dread the day when it's his time. I feel you sadness and pain. I'm very sorry. I cannot say when it will get better, or you'll feel better. I've always believed that to honour a pet, he should be replaced by another. Afterall, they always want you to be happy, and another pet will bring you happiness, but more, it will not allow you to forget. The new pet will always remind you and bring fond memories and smiles of the things Coco used to do. Give it time....
I am not religious, but perhaps this poem will bring you some solace.
THE RAINBOW BRIDGE
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge . When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge . There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals that had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together...
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Frank, I too feel for you. We had 2 beautiful Afghan Hounds. They were the center of our lives, before our son was born, and even afterwards they were as much a part of us as Matthew was. They both died at age 9. They had care & love not afforded to many humans. We suffered as you are now. We made the decession not to have to go thru this again, so we never replaced them. To each his/her own "solution" ~ You are not alone. Billions of people wordwide have gone thru what you are living thru right now. Do not feel ashaimed to grieve over your loss, grieving is as natural as breathing. See, even guys who are not the "softie" easily hurt type as I am, guys like R*Rocket & Steve are brought down over the loss of a loved pet. We are survivors, and you will be as well. Take the needed time to allow yourself to grieve over the loss of Coco, and then when your head is better you can make the decession that's right for you & yours on whether or not to get another dog, but never speak or say to "Replace Coco" ~ you will NEVER replace her, for like a person, she was unique. Think: "Add another pet to our lives" is a better outlook.
Best of luck. Time is on your side.
Frank, I too feel for you. We had 2 beautiful Afghan Hounds. They were the center of our lives, before our son was born, and even afterwards they were as much a part of us as Matthew was. They both died at age 9. They had care & love not afforded to many humans. We suffered as you are now. We made the decession not to have to go thru this again, so we never replaced them. To each his/her own "solution" ~ You are not alone. Billions of people wordwide have gone thru what you are living thru right now. Do not feel ashaimed to grieve over your loss, grieving is as natural as breathing. See, even guys who are not the "softie" easily hurt type as I am, guys like R*Rocket & Steve are brought down over the loss of a loved pet. We are survivors, and you will be as well. Take the needed time to allow yourself to grieve over the loss of Coco, and then when your head is better you can make the decession that's right for you & yours on whether or not to get another dog, but never speak or say to "Replace Coco" ~ you will NEVER replace her, for like a person, she was unique. Think: "Add another pet to our lives" is a better outlook.
Best of luck. Time is on your side.
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Frank - I’m so very sorry to hear of Coco’s departure and as my Gizmo lays here warming my toes I can appreciate your loss. The little bundles of fur and love become such a part of the daily lives of our families that their loss is truly that of the most dedicated member of our family. I’m with Ron on this, grieve, remember and all that but the best way to honor their lives is to open your home to another furkid when you and yours are ready. Think rescue because there are dogs out there that need what you have, a pooch loving home and have what you need, the unconditional love of a pooch.
DOG LETTERS TO GOD
Dear God,
How come people love to smell flowers, but seldom, if ever, smell one another? Where are their priorities?
Dear God,
When we get to Heaven, can we sit on your couch? Or is it the same old story?
Dear God
Excuse me, but why are there cars named after the jaguar, the cougar, the mustang, the colt, the stingray, and the rabbit, but not one named for a dog? How often do you see a cougar riding around? We dogs love a nice ride! I know every breed cannot have its own model, but it would be easy to rename the Chrysler Eagle the Chrysler Beagle!
Dear God,
If a dog barks his head off in the forest and no human hears him, is he still a bad dog?
Dear God,
Is it true that in Heaven, dining room tables have on-ramps?
Dear God,
If we come back as humans, is that good, or bad?
Dear God,
More meatballs, less spaghetti, please.
Dear God,
When we get to the Pearly Gates, do we have to shake hands to get in?
Dear God,
We dogs can understand human verbal instructions, hand signals, whistles, horns, clickers, beepers, scent IDs, electromagnetic energy fields, and Frisbee flight paths. What do humans understand?
Dear God,
Are there dogs on other planets or are we alone? I have been howling at the moon and stars for a long time, but all I ever hear back is the beagle across the street!
Dear God,
Are there mailmen in Heaven? If there are, will I have to apologize?
Dear God,
Is it true that dogs are not allowed in restaurants because we can't make up our minds what NOT to order? Or is it the carpets thing, again?
Cats are intended to teach us that not everything in nature has a function.
If a dog was your teacher
If a dog was your teacher, you would learn stuff like...
When loved ones come home, run to greet them.
Never pass up the opportunity of a joyride.
Allow the feel of wind and fresh air in your face to be pure ecstasy.
When it's in your best interests, practice obedience.
Let others know when they've invaded your territory.
Take naps often and stretch before rising.
Run, romp and play daily.
Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.
On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
When you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
No matter how often you're scolded, don't buy into the guilt thing and pout........run right back and make friends.
Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
Eat with gusto and enthusiasm, but stop when you've had enough.
Be loyal.
Never pretend to be something you're not.
If what you want lies buried, dig till you find it.
And most of all..
When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle them gently.
Are YOU as good as a dog?
If you can start the day without caffeine,
If you can get going without pep pills,
If you can always be cheerful, ignoring aches and pains,
If you can resist complaining and boring people with your troubles,
If you can eat the same food everyday and be grateful for it,
If you can understand when your loved ones are too busy to give you any time,
If you can overlook it when those you love take it out on you when, through no fault of yours, something goes wrong,
If you can take criticism and blame without resentment,
If you can ignore a friend's limited education and never correct him,
If you can resist treating a rich friend better than a poor friend,
If you can face the world without lies and deceit,
If you can conquer tension without medical help,
If you can relax without liquor,
If you can sleep without the aid of drugs,
If you can say honestly that deep in your heart you have no prejudice against, creed, color, religion or politics,
If you can give love unconditionally without pressure or expectation,
Then, my friend, you are almost as good as your dog.
Frank - I’m so very sorry to hear of Coco’s departure and as my Gizmo lays here warming my toes I can appreciate your loss. The little bundles of fur and love become such a part of the daily lives of our families that their loss is truly that of the most dedicated member of our family. I’m with Ron on this, grieve, remember and all that but the best way to honor their lives is to open your home to another furkid when you and yours are ready. Think rescue because there are dogs out there that need what you have, a pooch loving home and have what you need, the unconditional love of a pooch.
DOG LETTERS TO GOD
Dear God,
How come people love to smell flowers, but seldom, if ever, smell one another? Where are their priorities?
Dear God,
When we get to Heaven, can we sit on your couch? Or is it the same old story?
Dear God
Excuse me, but why are there cars named after the jaguar, the cougar, the mustang, the colt, the stingray, and the rabbit, but not one named for a dog? How often do you see a cougar riding around? We dogs love a nice ride! I know every breed cannot have its own model, but it would be easy to rename the Chrysler Eagle the Chrysler Beagle!
Dear God,
If a dog barks his head off in the forest and no human hears him, is he still a bad dog?
Dear God,
Is it true that in Heaven, dining room tables have on-ramps?
Dear God,
If we come back as humans, is that good, or bad?
Dear God,
More meatballs, less spaghetti, please.
Dear God,
When we get to the Pearly Gates, do we have to shake hands to get in?
Dear God,
We dogs can understand human verbal instructions, hand signals, whistles, horns, clickers, beepers, scent IDs, electromagnetic energy fields, and Frisbee flight paths. What do humans understand?
Dear God,
Are there dogs on other planets or are we alone? I have been howling at the moon and stars for a long time, but all I ever hear back is the beagle across the street!
Dear God,
Are there mailmen in Heaven? If there are, will I have to apologize?
Dear God,
Is it true that dogs are not allowed in restaurants because we can't make up our minds what NOT to order? Or is it the carpets thing, again?
Cats are intended to teach us that not everything in nature has a function.
If a dog was your teacher
If a dog was your teacher, you would learn stuff like...
When loved ones come home, run to greet them.
Never pass up the opportunity of a joyride.
Allow the feel of wind and fresh air in your face to be pure ecstasy.
When it's in your best interests, practice obedience.
Let others know when they've invaded your territory.
Take naps often and stretch before rising.
Run, romp and play daily.
Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.
On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
When you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
No matter how often you're scolded, don't buy into the guilt thing and pout........run right back and make friends.
Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
Eat with gusto and enthusiasm, but stop when you've had enough.
Be loyal.
Never pretend to be something you're not.
If what you want lies buried, dig till you find it.
And most of all..
When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle them gently.
Are YOU as good as a dog?
If you can start the day without caffeine,
If you can get going without pep pills,
If you can always be cheerful, ignoring aches and pains,
If you can resist complaining and boring people with your troubles,
If you can eat the same food everyday and be grateful for it,
If you can understand when your loved ones are too busy to give you any time,
If you can overlook it when those you love take it out on you when, through no fault of yours, something goes wrong,
If you can take criticism and blame without resentment,
If you can ignore a friend's limited education and never correct him,
If you can resist treating a rich friend better than a poor friend,
If you can face the world without lies and deceit,
If you can conquer tension without medical help,
If you can relax without liquor,
If you can sleep without the aid of drugs,
If you can say honestly that deep in your heart you have no prejudice against, creed, color, religion or politics,
If you can give love unconditionally without pressure or expectation,
Then, my friend, you are almost as good as your dog.
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Thank you all for you kind replies! Some made my sad and some made me laughs, which is something I haven't done in a few days. I'm not sure yet if we will be seeking another pet anytime soon. Puppies are a whole lot of work but they bring a whole lot of joy at the same time. Thanks again!
Thank you all for you kind replies! Some made my sad and some made me laughs, which is something I haven't done in a few days. I'm not sure yet if we will be seeking another pet anytime soon. Puppies are a whole lot of work but they bring a whole lot of joy at the same time. Thanks again!
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I'm sorry to hear of the loss Frank. We got a Yellow Lab almost a year ago, and I am thoroughly attach to her already. Although, I can't wait until she gets over her chewing stage. I have never had a pet for a long period of time.(Well except my freshwater tropical fish) My wife worked on me for almost two years to get an inside dog, and she finally won. Now it brings to mind a certain phrase...
"I long to be the kind of person my dog thinks I am."
I don't even want to think about what you have been through.
I'm sorry to hear of the loss Frank. We got a Yellow Lab almost a year ago, and I am thoroughly attach to her already. Although, I can't wait until she gets over her chewing stage. I have never had a pet for a long period of time.(Well except my freshwater tropical fish) My wife worked on me for almost two years to get an inside dog, and she finally won. Now it brings to mind a certain phrase...
"I long to be the kind of person my dog thinks I am."
I don't even want to think about what you have been through.
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I truly feel your pain. Over my lifetime I've felt the same sorrow that you're feeling several times when losing a pet. My son's dog Zona went to Dog Heaven 3 weeks ago. Although it was his, Zona lived in our home for 9 years and it's real hard going to my son's house and not being greeted by Zona now.
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I truly feel your pain. Over my lifetime I've felt the same sorrow that you're feeling several times when losing a pet. My son's dog Zona went to Dog Heaven 3 weeks ago. Although it was his, Zona lived in our home for 9 years and it's real hard going to my son's house and not being greeted by Zona now.
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As those of us have testified, we feel your pain. My wife and I had to put down her Golden a few years ago. One of the toughest decisions we ever had to make. We have another family member now in addition to our two felines (Mickey and Henry), a yellow lab named Maveric. He truly is Heather's shadow. I've never seen such loyalty in an animal.
Our thoughts are with you as well and time will heal your broken hearts.
As those of us have testified, we feel your pain. My wife and I had to put down her Golden a few years ago. One of the toughest decisions we ever had to make. We have another family member now in addition to our two felines (Mickey and Henry), a yellow lab named Maveric. He truly is Heather's shadow. I've never seen such loyalty in an animal.
Our thoughts are with you as well and time will heal your broken hearts.
unstoppable
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My simpathies.I feel your pain.Not too long ago I had to have a cat put down after about 17 years.No matter how hard I tried I couldn't hold back the tears.
My girlfriend and I just recently got a rot/heeler puppy.Hes a lot of work but at the same time so much fun it seems well worth it.
My simpathies.I feel your pain.Not too long ago I had to have a cat put down after about 17 years.No matter how hard I tried I couldn't hold back the tears.
My girlfriend and I just recently got a rot/heeler puppy.Hes a lot of work but at the same time so much fun it seems well worth it.
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I am very sorry to hear about your pet. I have a shep/springer mix that is now 13 and her sight, hearing and movement are getting very bad. I dread the day that she goes, I only hope it will be peaceful. I wish you happiness in the time to come. Best wishes and remember the good times you had with your pet.
I am very sorry to hear about your pet. I have a shep/springer mix that is now 13 and her sight, hearing and movement are getting very bad. I dread the day that she goes, I only hope it will be peaceful. I wish you happiness in the time to come. Best wishes and remember the good times you had with your pet.
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Sorry for your loss. My girl has a cocker spaniel that is almost 13. His hearing is very bad, so it's kinda cute the way we have to get right on top of him before he realizes we're there. I took him out the other day, and he is very happy. Just follows us around. Extremely loyal. Although I do worry she will have to go through what you are going through now very soon. I'll probably tell her what I am telling you now; Don't worry, your puppy is at peace.
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Sorry for your loss. My girl has a cocker spaniel that is almost 13. His hearing is very bad, so it's kinda cute the way we have to get right on top of him before he realizes we're there. I took him out the other day, and he is very happy. Just follows us around. Extremely loyal. Although I do worry she will have to go through what you are going through now very soon. I'll probably tell her what I am telling you now; Don't worry, your puppy is at peace.
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Frank,
So sorry for your loss. I lost my manx to heart failure a couple of months ago and thought I'd never get through it. I know he's waiting at Rainbow Bridge for me, but to this day, it's still difficult. Your CoCo will be there waiting for you and your family. If you're worried about how much work a puppy will be (and we all know they are!!!), you may want to consider that there are many rescue groups that work very hard to make puppies and adult dogs "home, people, animal, and child friendly" to enhance their odds for adoption. You can check on the internet at Petfinder.org or look for a specific breed's rescue group should you decide to let another animal into your life.
Again, my heartfelt sympathies go out to you and your family........
Frank,
So sorry for your loss. I lost my manx to heart failure a couple of months ago and thought I'd never get through it. I know he's waiting at Rainbow Bridge for me, but to this day, it's still difficult. Your CoCo will be there waiting for you and your family. If you're worried about how much work a puppy will be (and we all know they are!!!), you may want to consider that there are many rescue groups that work very hard to make puppies and adult dogs "home, people, animal, and child friendly" to enhance their odds for adoption. You can check on the internet at Petfinder.org or look for a specific breed's rescue group should you decide to let another animal into your life.
Again, my heartfelt sympathies go out to you and your family........
BadSax
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Frank so sorry to hear that Coco passed away...
Did you take the carpet off the kitchen floor? Was there a loud bang and then the sound of paws skidding? (ok, a bad joke at best)
Anyway, hope you, Liza and Susie are coping as best you can!
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Frank so sorry to hear that Coco passed away...
Did you take the carpet off the kitchen floor? Was there a loud bang and then the sound of paws skidding? (ok, a bad joke at best)
Anyway, hope you, Liza and Susie are coping as best you can!
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